Most guys make the huge mistake of doing exactly the wrong things when a woman does leave, to the point where they make it virtually impossible that she’s going to change her mind.
So what are the 3 biggest mistakes men make, that seal the deal and make it almost impossible to get a woman back? Here they are:
1. Acting like a needy “WUSS”.
This is a big one. Here’s the situation: woman leaves, man feels strong emotions of depression, strong physical cravings for her, and creates strong psychological rationalizations for trying to get her back. This leads to calling, visiting, confessing love, crying, and other similar behaviors.
Unfortunately, most guys don’t think for even a second about what the woman is seeing. And in most cases, the woman is already disgusted with the situation. This kind of “wuss” display only makes things 10 times worse.
2. Letting it destroy your lives.
It sucks when you lose someone you love. I believe that humans naturally feel depressed and upset when they lose someone they love.
But the problems start when you stop living, and you let the emotions take over. Instead of staying involved with life, some guys let depression and feelings of sadness control them, and wind up spiraling into even worse states of mind and body than they were in when the breakup happened originally. This, of course, can be pretty bad.
3. Pining away over your ex girlfriend for weeks, months, or even years after the fact.
Too many guys (and women) will just sit around hoping that their relationship “fixes itself”. This creates all kinds of negative emotional states, unrealistic expectations, and strange vibes when you do communicate with your ex girlfriend.
So what’s the answer to all of this?
Well, when a relationship comes to an end, you need to get on with your life. Stay busy, get things going. Don’t allow any negative emotions to create a permanent belief that you’ll never feel better again.
The strange truth is that if you want to make your ex girlfriend to feel attraction again for you, you’re just have to do basically the same things that you would do with new woman that you meet.
And never forget the power of jealousy. If your ex girlfriend know that you’re getting on with your life and seeing other people, your ex girlfriend is far more likely to take a renewed interest in you.
In other words, if you sit around and sulk you’re not going to become more attractive.
If you call your ex girlfriend all the time and beg for forgiveness, or talk about how much you miss her, or whine and cry, this will probably only drive your ex girlfriend even further away from you.
Here is what you have to do to make your ex girlfriend back to you again: You need to get on with your life, don’t call often, play “hard to get”, tease her and have fun, and let your ex girlfriend know that you’re dating other people and moving forward to enjoy your life. This is the kind of thing that will create that magical feeling called attraction inside of your ex girlfriend.