Dating Advice For Men- She Needs To Be Guessing
Has this happened to you? You really like this new girl you’re dating. Awesome! Unfortunately, how she treats you dictates your emotions.
This is a problem.
You react like a puppet on a string. When she kisses and scratches your back you’re happy for two days. Then she ignores you for a week and you are ready to turn gay and jump off a cliff. She controls your every emotion day by day, hour by hour.
Have you played this role? She’s turned you into wimp. So what do you do?
In one week you can change all this. Just deal with the pain of not begging for her attention for seven days.
She is keeping you guessing. Now, let’s turn this around. Keep her guessing about your feelings. Stop empowering her by reacting to her every positive or negative gesture.
Time to get a bit mysterious and aloof. Get her on the emotional guessing game. She will start to wonder how you are feeling towards her at any given time.
Relationship Help for Men, Here’s what you do
Give her oodles of attention on Monday and nothing for the next three days. Don’t be rude and don’t totally ignore her. This not so subtle change in your persona will quickly trigger the “He might not be into me” emotion in her.
By doing this she will realize that you have other higher ranking things in life sometimes. You have changed her thought process about you. The game is on and she (all of a sudden) doesn’t want to lose you. This is an easy key to seduction that men rarely use because they are so infatuated with a woman early in the relationship.
So in other words, don’t always show your cards. At least not at the beginning of the relationship. As you’ve heard me say many times, The “all in guy” has a very limited shelf life.
OK, you’ve waited the three days, now give her tons of attention again, then stop. She’ll get crazy with passion and she will be demanding more of your time.
You’ve broken your cycle of giving her too much attraction. This will have immediate results if she likes you. You’ll notice more back scratches and the things you like from her. Good luck and happy dating!
Nice job, no jumping off a cliff for you!