I don’t know about you, but I don’t think flirting should be hard at all. I don’t believe it’s meant to be a challenge. On the contrary — I believe flirting is meant to be FUN! And it CAN be fun for you, too, especially if you try out these 5 easy flirting tips on your very next date.
Flirting Tip #1 – Saying “I Hate You.”
Most men, even the best ones out there, go into first dates expecting the woman to be polite, pleasant, and genial. But when you suddenly tell him “I hate you” with a smile, especially after he says something egotistic or after he teases you, it’s going to drive him crazy — in a good way, of course!
When you say “I hate you” with a smile, you’re going to leave him wondering, “Wow, did she really mean that, or is she teasing me?” It puts you in control, makes you feel relaxed, and creates an instant familiar bond with him all at the same time.
Flirting Tip #2 – Winking.
It’s a sad fact in the dating game, but hardly anyone winks anymore. There was a time when winking was an enjoyable gesture that instantly gave a flirty, naughty, and fun message — even without a word being said. But guess what? That’s what makes it so unexpected when you use it today!
When you wink at a guy today, he’s NOT going to see it coming! But the message is there — you’re teasing, you’re flirting, and you’re in control. And if he’s man enough, he’s going to play your game!
Flirting Tip #3 – Mimic His Movements.
Try this on your next date — when he rests his head on his hand, do the same. If he crosses his legs, cross your legs too. And if he takes a sip of coffee, take a sip of your own drink, too. The idea is to mimic his movements a few seconds AFTER he makes them.
Now why am I asking you to mirror his movements?
Just this little scientific fact. Studies have shown that men react more favorably to women who move the same way they do. And guess what? It’s all unconscious — he won’t even NOTICE you’re mimicking his movements! But he’ll pick it up unconsciously anyway, and he’s going to end up liking you more.
Flirting Tip #4 – Imply Sex.
Let’s face it — even during the first date, he’s going to entertain the thought of having sex with you in the future. He’s going to wonder whether there’s going to be anything “frisky” with you down the line. That’s why when you imply the idea of sex, even innocently, it’s going to make him MORE interested in you!
You shouldn’t talk about sex directly, though — that’ll just give him the wrong idea about you. Instead, get creative! For instance, if you’re strolling at the mall and you happen to pass by the lingerie section, point to a sexy item and say, “That’s CUTE!” Trust me, those two words will put all sorts of ideas in his mind!
Flirting Tip #5 – Tell Him To “Do His Worst!”
This last tip is best saved for the last part of any date — when he asks for your contact information. Now usually, women either hesitate to give their numbers (they don’t feel it for him), or they give their numbers too eagerly (they’re needy and desperate). Either way, it’s not a good impression to give him!
Instead, write down your contact information, hand it to him, and tell him to “Do your worst!” It instantly tells him that you’re comfortable with him, and that you’re one of the few women out there who are actually WORTH being with.
Now go out there and FLIRT!