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A lot of people have been asking me to talk about my thoughts on Amanda Todd. All I ask is that if it offends you, consider ignoring this or letting me know WHY you think I am incorrect instead of trying to get it taken down. This is going to be a bit of a read, but fuck you its worth it.

I don’t have many thoughts about Amanda specifically. But I will leave them at the bottom of this status if you can be fucked reading it. For now I have some advice that people need to hear but usually don’t in today’s society.

If you are being bullied to the extent where even if you move schools, cities, wherever and it is still happening. You should consider evaluating your behavior or even your perception of other peoples actions.
Most of the time bullying will happen for a reason, no matter how seemingly stupid, there is a reason for it. Evaluate your actions. Because; (prepare for a shock) IT COULD BE PARTIALLY YOUR FAULT!

I’m not saying that it is entirely your fault, but sometimes there are people who, no matter what fucking piss you off. It could be people who think they are superior, it could be people who are so flamboyantly gay their sexuality becomes their entire being, it could even be me for fucks sake. What I am saying is that if you are your own “unique” person then that is great. Fucking good for you.

BUT if “being yourself” annoys others, causes conflict, puts you in a position where you are bullied then you should consider modifying or toning down your behavior. If you simply cannot do this and need to act in a way that causes conflict, then you need to be ready to HANDLE the conflict.

With Amanda Todd, I honestly think that while it is a terrible thing she committed suicide there are a few things that can be learned from her experience.

First of all. Don’t send nudes to guys unless you completely trust them, and if you are fifteen. Just don’t fucking send nudes to anyone.
Don’t sleep with people who have girlfriends unless you are prepared for the backlash.
If you have family troubles or live in an abusive household then TELL SOMEONE. Without telling someone who can help, nothing will change.

Again. This post is not meant to offend anyone, it is my honest opinion on the whole bullying subject. If you by chance do happen to be offended. Inbox this page, or my personal page and I will talk to you. Don’t just abuse me and the commentors for agreeing with it.

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