Getting your ex-boyfriend to come back and give the relationship another try can be quite difficult. In order to save the relationship, you will need to have the patience, time and understanding to pursue this daunting task. If he has already found someone else, that will make it even more difficult. The time it takes will be well worth it in the end if you can get him back.
Follow these tips and it could just be your answer.
Review the breakup: To start with you need to be clear as to why the breakup came about. Think back on what happened and why. Was it your fault? Did he just walk away? Be honest with yourself. Discovering the real reason for the breakup is where it all begins. With that part done now you can start the work of finding a resolution.
Be optimistic. Having a positive outlook about everything is very important. No one wants to be with or around someone who complains, wants to “get even”, or feels sorry for themselves. Find something in your life that is good and focus on that. Feel happy and optimistic about getting back together – that attitude will be more attractive. Show your ex-boyfriend that you are not depressed or mad. Show him that you can be a happy person.
Always look your best. When you look good, you feel good and it shows. Men are more visual, so the way you look and present yourself the easier it is to attack men. Men go for looks first, then they want to get to know you better. Men want to have other men think they are with an attractive woman. Men want other men to envy them. By looking your best, you help him look good. This really helps a man’s ego.
Self-esteem is very important. You do not want to be the person who is always texting or calling him. That is a real turn-off. You will come off as desperate and that is not attractive. Men need more of a challenge. They want what they think they can’t have. Be a little hard to get. The more he has to work to get you back, the better off you are.
Limit your use of alcohol. This is very important, as you always want to be in control. Alcohol can impair your ability to make a wise decision. You may say or do something that could destroy all of your chances to reconcile. Be very aware of how much you have had to drink. No man wants to be with someone who has had too much to drink.
No matter what you choose to do, it will take some time and a lot of effort on your part. However, just think of the result you could get. You and your ex-boyfriend could be back together. You just need to get to work on the task at hand. I wish for you the best results.