It might seem hard to approach that beautiful, mesmerizing woman you have noticed somewhere, but it is really not that difficult. The first initial step to approaching a female would be solid, direct eye contact. Eye contact is very important when you are first trying to capture a woman’s attention. The exact time of holding eye contact with her would be near 5 seconds. Yes, only 5 seconds is all it would take, remember to have a little smile and glow in your facial expression. Once you do this she will know, “This guy is interested in me”.

Second, would be actual communication between the two of you. Communication is very important to intriguing and engaging the woman. Communication is an art that needs to be mastered, and all you can do to master this art is practice constant communication. A correct way to begin conversation would be, “Hello, What is your name?” and then give her a compliment such as, “You are really pretty, gorgeous, etc..”. I guarantee you that this will work and get her smiling and talking to you. After this first initial introduction, she will want to talk to you and be more open as the conversation moves along.

Following up, after your introduction and the conversation is begun you will want to speak with her and bring about general topics such as where are you from? What are your interests? Hobbies? Etc.. Remember, you must not delve into any controversial topics that might bring about tension such as religious affiliation, political beliefs, and similar. Try to make a few jokes and get her to laugh a little as well; another trick may be to ask her some questions which you know and are 100% sure she will say yes to, for example “Do you like to have fun?”, or if she is wearing pink clothes “Do you like the color pink?” These types of questions will have her more likely to say yes to you when you ask her on a date, or for her number.

At this time it would be necessary to exchange your phone numbers and contact information. However, there is a certain way you need to ask for a womans number. A proper way would be, “I was wondering if I could have your phone number because I really enjoyed this talk/time with you and I would like to continue it at another time”. An improper and unappealing way to ask would be asking her right off the bat, before even asking her name or talking. This will not work and will more than often leave her looking in the opposite direction of you. Remember, woman want confident men, confidence is sexy to women. Do not ask your friends or company to go and talk to a woman for you, this screams immature, un-confident, and unappealing.



Source by Will L.

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